Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Treasure a man with these Qualities...

How can you tell whether he truly loves you whole-heartedly?

I am sure everyone has been through courtship and experience happiness & sadness from the event. Have you ever ask your friends how can they tell whether a man truly loves them unconditionally? Let me reveal the secrets to you. Now bear in mind these four qualities and you will never go wrong...

1) A man who places you above his own priority

Generiosity of his heart. During courtship, we can often see a person's generosity towards the other party. Let's say for example, Man A is left with merely $10. He who truly loves you will spend the entire $10 on you & leaves nothing for himself. With the last bowl of rice, he will give it to the woman he loves while he endure the hunger in order to ensure the woman he loves does not suffer hunger pangs.

However, Man B will keep the money for himself and finishes all the food, leaving little or nothing for the other party. Does this not reflect Man's A sincerity & generosity while magnifiying Man B’s self-centeredness?

2) Does he accept you for who you are when you are looking in your worst state?

We are all but human beings. It will not be possible for human to present the beautiful image 24/7. Imagine yourself having chicken pox does he avoids you or does he shower you with more TLC (tender loving care) and look after the sickly patient? If he still loves you during your imperfect moment, highly he will accept you for what you are. If a man only look at the superficial package of a woman chances are when you are over your prime age and your skin starts sagging and wrinkles slowly creeps onto your face, you may find him on a hunt for other prey…

3) Regardless of how insignificant your problem is, he is there for you.

In the middle of the night, while you are working over-time / studying and you tell him you are hungry. What does your boyfriend do? Does he advise you to complete your work and go home to sleep OR do you suddenly find food at your doorsteps?

In a relationship, it is not only about a man telling you how much he loves you. Actions can supersede a thousand words. No problems are too insignificant as long as it relates to you. He will always be by your side when you encounter any problems and require solutions. You can be assured that this is a person you can count on through thick or thin.

4) A person who stands-by you though you have rejected him

If you have expressed to a man he does not stand a chance, and he is still there for you as a friend, chances are you may want to re-consider.

In usual case, when a man receives negative vibes from a woman, he will turn his back against this woman and gives his attention & effort to others where he may still stands a chance.
Bear in mind, when a man woos a woman, he will be more then willing to sacrifice anything to win her heart. However, when he wins her heart, all the sweet nothings and his diligence toward the relationship will cease gradually.

Hence, if you have already met a man with the above criteria, do not take him for granted. Happiness is ahead, cherish and love him in return. Not all women are as fortunate… After all, a relationship does take 2 hands to clap and flourish. If you are pondering which man to choose, it is time to give it some thoughts as being loved is always fortunately…

P/S: The above is only for people who are unmarried… so for married couples please appreciate & treasure your spouse, differences are bound to occur but iron out issues in an amiable atmosphere. Think of the singles out there who are unable to find a spouse and you will realize your life is much more complete…

No comments: